My issue is after the relay at the connector to the tail harness . Can’t get it to die Now but no broke wire or connector issues at this point .There should be a single red wire dangling from the fuel pump relay connector. If you put 12v to that, it sends 12v to the pump. If it does it again, and the pump wont run, put 12v to that wire...that will tell you if the problem is the relay or the wiring "downstream" to the pump.
Also, either your oil pressure switch isnt working properly either, it shouldnt die with a running engine regardless of the relay, or you have a wiring issue "after" both the relay and switch.