The modulator can make it not want to go into 3rd,if its not getting enough vacuum or it is defective...it'll also feel like it freewheels when you let off the throttle if the modulator is not getting enough vacuum when it is in second,but wont upshift to 3rd..
There should be a steel tube going from the modulator to the fitting on the intake manifold,with only a short rubber hose at each end ,to the modulator and the fitting..some try to cheat and use all rubber hose,that's not correct and can cause this type of trouble,so can hooking the vaccum source up to some other fitting on the carb or other spot,the correct place is the fitting right behind the carb,that is manifold vaccum..
It could be in the valve body too,but that isnt too common...unless it had been taken apart and fooled with maybe,or was high mileage..
Another possibility is the detent cable (for passing gear) isn't adjusted right,so its staying in second,and not letting it upshift..
I'd go right back to the rebuilder and have him look at it..if you try fixing it yourself,he may not want to stand behind his work...
Greg Ducato is the man here who knows automatics best ,I'm just a backyarder who's had a few trany's that acted up,and I managed to figure out what was wrong with help from him,and some books at the library,online googling too...