as far as gaskets slipping out of the mating surface, you might want to try not torquing the bolts to a bazillion ft lb. and if you are using the rubber gaskets on the valve covers try cleaning the surfaces really good and using some gaska-cinch. that crap is liek super glue, works very well. oh, and cast aluminum valve covers will seal flat 20 times before you get a stamped steel one to do the same.
oh, and I use the orange and black, never had a problem, as long as you clean it right and apply, it shoudl last a good long time.
-Scott