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desertrat67

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OK, as some of the Lounge readers may know, my little brother, Randy, was killed by police at my parents' house Tuesday morning.

My parents are really tore up about it. We have two completely differnt stories about what happened.

The police were called to the house by a neighbor because they thought they heard fighting in the house(domestic). My brother and his wife had been drinking at the house(kids were with grandpa) and my brother is a very loud person. My sister-in-law says there was no fighting, just Randy being a loud drunk.

The police say my brother opened the door with a shotgun and one cop grabbed the barrel and wrestled with Randy to get it away, then managed to get his pistol out and fire 7 rounds into him while wrestling him.

My sister-in-law was there in the living room and watched what happened. According to her, my brother was walking to the safe to put the shotgun away after showing her how it worked(load, unload, saftey, etc.). She said he turned a step or two away from the safe to look at the front door(it was open, but the screen was shut). That is when the first cop opened the door and fired upon Randy 7 times. She says they didn't announce their presence or tell Randy to put the gun down. Just opened the door and laid into him and the second cop had to tell the first to stop firing multiple times.

From the looks of it, the cop fired the first round off before he even had his pistol aimed(there is a round that goes diagonal through the table by the front door and clipped the bottom edge of the table.

The Escondido police are already not doing good. Their Chief is under investigation right now for wrong doing and there was another killing by the PD recently that is being questioned.

We are having the funeral Friday at 4 at the McLeod Mortuary in Escondido, CA.

Mods, if you must delete this, go ahead, I just wanted to let you all know what was going on.

Rene (tRusty) and those that replied to the post Rene started, thank you for your condolenses.
 
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my prayers are with you and your family. i saw this the other day and had no idea what to say. i wish yall the best
 
Condolences Randy. I would recommend waiting until all the information is gathered and presented before making a judgment. I'm sure the shooting will go through an incredible amount of scrutiny. If you lived in some 10 person town in the middle of nowhere, I'd be concerned about something being swept under the carpet. Given where you live, I'd expect to see a seriously hard look at everything. I know it is tough to be patient in these hard times but try if you can.
 
Good luck to ya brother. Your in my prayers. May justice be served, but no punishment can ever bring back a lost loved one. Its sad to think how quickly everything can be taken away from us.
 
I'm just horrified, and somewhat stunned by this still. I read it the other night when Rene posted it up....prayers going out for ya brother.
 
Condolences Randy. I would recommend waiting until all the information is gathered and presented before making a judgment. I'm sure the shooting will go through an incredible amount of scrutiny. If you lived in some 10 person town in the middle of nowhere, I'd be concerned about something being swept under the carpet. Given where you live, I'd expect to see a seriously hard look at everything. I know it is tough to be patient in these hard times but try if you can.

I hope it does go through a lot of scrutiny. I am upset by what happened but an trying to keep an open mind as to both sides of the story.

To everyone else, thank you.
 
Oh man :( I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't even imagine dealing with something like this. I will certainly keep you and your family in my thoughts & prayers. Hang in in there Ryan.
 
This will stay up, what good are rules if you can't bend em now and then?

Keep your chin up brother, we're here for you no matter what you need. If you need to talk or anything lemme know and I'll happily call you on my dime.

Rene
 
WOW! Thats horrible :(. So very sorry to hear. Prayers for you and family going out. I hope there is justice in this case.
 
Man, I haven't known what to make of it or even say elsewhere. One of those, "everything sounds trite", times. You have my number still?

Keep us updated.
 
Wow, i must have missed the original post. I'm sorry for your loss brother. Like someone else already said, i hope justice is served even though it won't bring your brother back.
 
Man I’m sorry for your loss. You know your brother better than anyone so go with your gut instinct. Personally I don’t trust the police at all but that’s just me.
 
words cant describe how sorry I am to hear of your loss , best wishes to you and your faimily
 
sorry to hear about your brother.hope your family can get threw this alright.keep us updated on the investigation.
 
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