You shouldn't drop the case to begin with. You should be able to shim the rear and get your angles correct with a 4" lift..
Lowering the crossmember especially with those "spacers" isn't the best way to fix this. For one that's not what those sleeves are for and using them creates stress points on an already weak frame. Two lowering the crossmember only helps with the rear angle, but actually hurts the front angle by pointing it up.
IF you think you must lower the case then solid stock is a better option than those "spacers"
To correct your angles you need to grab an angle finder from your local hardware store. Find the case ouput and pinion input angle and basically they should be parallel. Many people recommend running the pinion 1-2 degrees down from parallel to account for axle wrap under power.
My .02