So, in case anybody wondered what happened to me, and cause I feel like getting it off my chest, I'm going to explain where I've been.
So, as some of you probably remember, I had gotten a trucking job with CR England around Thanksgiving last year. Life with the wife at that point was kind of shaky, and I kind of hoped that being gone would help a little. So, I drove to Salt Lake City the day after Thanksgiving for the new job, and just as I pulled into the parking lot for my first day, the wife and I had a very very bad conversation on the phone. It was clear at this point that even being gone wouldn't fix anything. So, out of frustration and anger, I left Cr England that day before I even started and headed down to St George, UT to stay with a buddy for awhile. Things continued to go south in the marriage, way south.
Let me give some background info before I continue. In May of last year, we put our house on the market and most of you know that the market is and was crashed, or dead. So, not one offer on the house, and barely any views. Due to me not having any success here with the job market all last year, we were in a financial bind as well. So, our credit at this point was shot, or house payments were backed up a couple of months. Bankruptcy was the only option at this point.
So, I lived in St George for like 3 1/2 months. I got a temp job working with a Plumber as a helper and actually kind of enjoyed it. But, the job was only temporary due to lack of work. So, during that time in St George, I talked with the wife occasionally to try to patch things up over the phone and see what would happen. Nothing changed. Right before Valentines day she informed me that she was done and wanted a divorce. I didn't and continued to try to fix our marriage with no luck. So I also agreed to the divorce.
So, once my job ended in St George, I had no place to work, so I decided to come back to Spokane to be near my boy, who is 22 months old by the way. I got back into Spokane March 1st. Moved back into the house with the wife, but we aren't together. The house is in foreclosure and will be taken from us in June, and our bankruptcy will be finalized next week. I lose my truck in the bankruptcy unfortunately. I will be divorced by summer.
I guess I just have to start over. I'm 26 years old and am considering several options right now but have no clue what I'm going to do. I've considered getting back into school and finishing my degree which should take about 2 years. I've also considered joining the army or marines. I just got a job with Lowe's as a delivery driver. It pays good and has good benefits. I will more then likely just work there until I decide for sure what I'm going to do.
Sorry for the long story. I just felt like explaining my absence and lack of posts