Not a lot of feedback from the custom torque converter shops... but pursuing my parallel path of OEM parts, GM may have a solution for me it turns out...
Chevrolet Performance Transmission Adapter Kits 19154766:
Couple key comments -
Can I use the newer LS 4L60 Family electronic transmissions behind the older Small Blocks and Big Blocks?
As noted above, the bell housing pattern is essentially the same, but you will have the opposite converter nose to crankshaft pilot issue. (compared to LS engine to old style trans) The torque converter pilot on any LS style 4L60 family transmissions will bottom out in the crankshaft before the bell housing touches the block. In this case you need adapter kit p/n 19154766 to space the bell housing back approximately 9.6mm to gain the proper clearance between the converter and crankshaft when using the newer LS style 4/L60 family transmission behind a traditional small block.
Torque Converter to Flexplate Bolt Circle Diameter (BCD)
There are basically 3 different torque converter to flexplate bolt circle diameters (BCD) used by GM over the years.
The 4L80 family and TH400 use an 11.5” (292.1mm) BCD.
The early 4L60 (pre-LS engine), TH350, 700R4, 2004R, P/G, etc, use a 10.75” (273.05mm) BCD
Later “LS” style 4L60 family transmissions use an 11.062” (281.0mm) BCD. (6L80 is also 281mm)
Rear Crankshaft Flange Bolt Patterns
All early Chevrolet Small and Big Block with two piece rear main oil seals used the same 3.580” diameter 6-bolt flange pattern for attaching the flywheel or flexplate to the crankshaft. The Big Block has kept the same 3.580” 6-Bolt pattern regardless of the seal design (one piece or two piece) throughout its history.
In the mid 1980s the small block changed the rear main oil seal to a one piece design using a 3.000”
All Gen III and Gen IV LS design small blocks use a 3.110” (79 mm)
So it sounds like if I go with this kit and I re-drill my existing flexplate to match to the torque converter pattern and then this will work but the engine will sit 10mm forward in the truck so I may need to get a little creative in my engine mounts/mount brackets or move the trans brace backwards and take up some yoke slack.
It seems that if you have an LS you need dished flexplate to make up for the offset because of the shorter crank to maintain the bellhousing flange to crank flange gap. If you have an older style engine or BB with the long crank you need the flat flexplate to maintain that gap. Again this supports my theory that the the new LS engine family is just an SBC built with a computer instead of a drafting pad.