I'm running 37"s with 4.56's and am also having probs with my BTO stage 2. My lock up kicks in and out with a mild accelleration in overdrive. In your case with 38's and 4.10's. I would probably run it in 3rd gear and not even worry about OD. My next move is 38's and 4.10's with a 465/205 combo. With the 37's and 456's, I'm only turning about 1900-2000 rpm. I think that is a hair low at 65mph. I think I'd like to be closer to 2400rpm at 65mph. I don't know if that is the right thinking or not. I feel for you though, I've been through that alot. Right now I have $ 2000 into my BTO tranny and have driven about 5000 to 6000 miles and it still isn't right. I went 4 months with out my truck last year. I've owned it 1 year now and have only put those miles on it. My last 88 burned the tranny up running 2.72 gears with 35's. Went to a th350 and blew that one 2 weeks before my honeymoon. The 465 was my answer and have had no probs with it since. My summer project is to tear out the 60/14ff/205/465 out of my rusting 88 and put it in my 89 rust free truck. Good luck with your case!