Yeah Brian, I got a pack of ARP 12pt bolts but they didn't come with those little star washers. I need to grab some from the hardware store.
My question was related to getting the little fockers off the original flexplate with out rounding them off.
The flexplate to crank bolts are SAE american not metric bolts. Use a 6 point socket to remove them, 12 point sockets usually are pretty loose on them. DO NOT use any kind of washer under the head of an ARP bolt as those bolts are designed to not use a washer, read the instructions with the bolts and it will tell you this.

