yeah, go with option #1. Lower lift springs always flex better. As far as trimming and your bling paint job goes, IMO if you're that worried about it, have a professional body guy trim the fenders for you. He can add a factory-style lip and everything. Of course, unless you have a friend that does bodywork, it will cost you... but if you wanna keep the bling that is an option to do so that allows a much cheaper / more trailready suspension setup and better offroad performance all at the same time.
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