Actually, if it has not changed, all DMax filters are made by Racor at this time. Whether it says Racor, Fram, or Wix, they are all the same.
Use a diesel oil. I use Rotella, though I may well switch to Mobile 1.
Stay away from stuff like the K&N. Research (real research) on Tthe Diesel Place shows that the paper is actually better across the board for filtration, and so close it does not matter for performance. Anyone want to buy a UNI?
The exhaust on a DMax is very good stock. Major improvements from nothing but a free flow muffler, minor improvements going 4", almost nothing beyond. Talking EGTs here, not power...
Never heard of "the kit", have to check into that...
Diesel is a problem for me, only "gas stations" (and very few of them) within an hour of me. /forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif Biggest problem with "station diesel" is that it sets longer which makes it more likely to accumulate water and biologicals (bugs). They also tend to not be diligent in keeping up with filter replacement intervals on the pumps.
Get and carry a spare fuel filter. One bad tank of fuel can leave you stranded on the interstate.
If you want performance, first mod should be an EGT guage. These things can make a ton of power very cheaply, but EGT will kill them if your not careful when straying beyond stock parameters.