On the fuel gauge I've got 4v on it when the switch is on. I've switched to 4cyl mode on the tach and no difference, I'll try adding a resistor later.
Pretty sure you should be going by ohms not volts on the fuel gauge. There will be a 12v switched power and ground. Then the fuel gauge sending wire you should test for ohms. I forget what the gm gauge reads at for full, half, and empty. If you can google Those numbers that will tell you a lot.
The ground wire from the fuel tank should read very low ohms to another ground point. If it reads high; clean your ground and make sure it is tightened down all the way.
Are you 100% certain you have the engine speed wire? I believe the engine speed and vehicle speed wires are both white.