I don't know if its that I just watched a confusing movie or confusing posts tonight but wtf? I've never heard of a "manifold spreader" and seeing as manifolds are made of cast iron and could not be spread without cracking and being ruined then NO. There are exhaust expanders. I have a few examples of them, they are great tools you can get at any auto parts store. Whats up with your manifold that it won't line up? What is the manifold you are trying to use off of? What is the motor from? The only thing I can think is you are trying to use a Small Block manifold on a Big Block, beyond that all small block chevy's should have the same pattern on the heads, plus or mine one bolt hole on the very end(front end on the driver's side head).