I'm unclear on the input, as the TH350 version of the NP205 uses a male shaft, though it then has a female coupler so that may be what the guy is talking about. Lots of info on ORD's page, i.e.
http://offroaddesign.com/catalog/transfercaseparts.htm
One thing you don't mention is the bolt pattern on the front of the case. You may need a different adapter from tranny to transfer case. The adapter is the cast iron "foot" at the bottom of this picture:
The picture is rotated funny, so on the left side are the two big bolts that bolt to the crossmember -- that one is for a TH350 to an NP203, on my '74. I don't know what the TH350/NP205 adapters look like.
That adapter will in turn decide what crossmember you need. Hopefully you at least get the adapter, even if the crossmember was cut up.
Another thing to check on is the size and type of the yokes. You'll need to know if you have 1310 or S44 U-joints (unless you're going big to the 1350), and note that 1310 CV's use a different size yoke than a plain 1310. (That epiphany just bit me in the butt

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If you're gonna tear the thing apart, you Might As Well® get a set of the ORD modified shift rails, so you get the full range of control (front 2WD low, etc, that you can't get with the stock setup.)
The last thing that comes to mind is that the shifters may be in a different place, so you may need to cut your floor pan up (which may be trouble if you have carpet.) Might also be worth pulling the carpet up to see if you have the removable tranny hump or if yours is welded-in.
-- A