Are you planning to run a hydro clutch, or buy an advance adapter's bellhousing and retain the mechanical linkage? The good news is that the NV4500 uses the same clutch disc as your SM465, you will not need to change it out to complete the swap.
Either way, since the NV4500's shifter sits back a few inches as compared to the SM465, you will need to modify your floor pan to move the opening to account for the difference in location. Since the NV4500's shifter sits further back, you'll also run into clearance issues between the NP241 / NP208 shifter assembly and the NV4500's shifter boot.
To fix that, you can thread the linkage rod the rest of the way with a die and shorten the rod to allow you to move the NP241 shifter back a few inches as well. With a bench seat, you might find the shifter to be part way under the seat, but at least you'll be able to install a boot on the NV4500 that way. Since the t-case shifter is going to be sitting a bit further back, you'll also need to modify the floor pan to close up the NP205's original opening and cut for the NP241 shifter.
The wiring for the reverse lights is identical between the two transmissions, you can just plug and play. The t-case, on the other hand, is capable of turning on a 4x4 idiot light if you want to install one. The switch is just an on / off switch, so have it switch the ground and you'll be good to go. Also be aware that you'll have to get a transfer case from an 89 to retain your mechanical speedometer drive, and it must have a 32 spline input shaft to mate with the NV4500. The NP241 has a standard 6 bolt round t-case mounting pattern, and does not require any kind of adapters to bolt up to the transmission.
You will also need to purchase a new transmission / t-case crossmember. The NP205 has it's own type of mount and is not interchangeable with the newer NP241's mounting setup. As you might guess, your original drive shafts are no longer going to work. The 205 likely has a fixed yolk on it in your 80, and the NP241 has a slip yolk, not to mention the differences in length. You can simply pull the drive shafts from an 81+ K10 with an NP208 and any transmission and use them with the NV4500 / NP241 combo as GM standardized the drive shaft lengths by varying the length of the adapters between the transmission and t-case.