I would agree with Steve and Mike regarding the 14bolt. I have had my 14bolt w/Detroit locker for 11 years, 454, 38.5 tires. It gets used hard, and NEVER any problems. I think it is only 200lbs heavier (if that) than the 10/12 bolts. Put discs on an it should be alittle lighter. It is cheap and robust! The diff does not hang down that much lower. If you have a choice between being stuck because your hung up (14bolt), or stuck because your broken (10/12), which is easier to deal with on the trail? I have never found the 14 bolt's weight or size to cause me concern or difficulty on the trail. When people on the trail have broken their 1/2 ton rears (shafts, tubes, gears, or whatever - and running smaller tires and smaller engines than me), they have often commented "Wish I had a Dana60 or a 14 bolt". I have never said "Wish I had 10/12 bolt". It's bullet proof. I can't even imagine what it would take to damage a 14bolt. And who ends up pulling these broken rigs out of the trails - me of course! Could you do that with a smaller diff? Don't forget most of the 14bolts already come with 4.11's, and a locker is only $280.
Don't get me wrong, there are alot of good points to the 10/12 bolt diffs, and it does well for what it was designed for. The 14 bolt FF is a cheap, bulletproof upgrade, for nominal weight gain and very little loss of ground clearance. I'm sure it's happened somewhere out there, but I myself have never seen or heard anyone break a 14 boltFF.
Walter