My only "beef" with the PM feature is the 5000 word "limit"--as you guys know I'm not a man of few words..

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It'd be nice if a little sign popped up when you typed the 5000th word in--instead of finding out when you try to "send" the message,it says "sorry sucker--go back and delete half your post "!...

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It's tough to delete any of your message without it coming out sounding all weird..
I try to stay way the heck away from coding. I had a problem with it many years ago, and its best if I don't do it anymore........
And even if I were still coding, I would have to look at the source code for this site to give a decent opinion.
Having said all that, I'm pretty sure that a word limit countdown setup is a "canned" function that might just plug in fairly easily.
I see it a lot on order sites, where you enter comments about your order, plus general comments on blogs.
When you start to type in a box, a small message pops up giving you a running countdown of how many words you have typed and how many you have left you can type.
Surprisingly enough, I have only hit the limit once in a PM. After that, I took care to not go over.
Of course, the fact that I do very few PMs might have something to do with it.
If one does not notice this, you might try PMing one of the mods with a suggestion.
They were kind enough to take up my suggestion about the strike through option, even though I am one of the few to
use care about it