well, i got under there last nite to get this taken care of. a machinist at my brother's work gave me a heli-coil set to work with.
i dropped the starter and was looking at the holes, and sure enough i noticed that one hole (the one i haven't had problems with) seemed to have threads right up flush with the surface of the block (actually looked like a heli-coil)- the other did not. so, just to make sure i actually needed to do this, i decided to try to thread a bolt into the hole one last time. turns out, i was using a bolt that was too short and that the bolt could only reach maybe one or two threads and that the threads were fine. so i got a longer bolt and everything is ok now.
i wish i had the stock starter bolts.
i dropped the starter and was looking at the holes, and sure enough i noticed that one hole (the one i haven't had problems with) seemed to have threads right up flush with the surface of the block (actually looked like a heli-coil)- the other did not. so, just to make sure i actually needed to do this, i decided to try to thread a bolt into the hole one last time. turns out, i was using a bolt that was too short and that the bolt could only reach maybe one or two threads and that the threads were fine. so i got a longer bolt and everything is ok now.

i wish i had the stock starter bolts.

--he was LUCKY to get them to go in,he had little choice but to crank them in with a breaker bar,we thought sure the heads would either crack or strip again!..
don't have them... wish i did tho. 
