UPDATE:
It's out and at ATI. They are looking at it right now. i figured this was the fastest way. If it doesn't work out this time (i have hunch it will work out), then i'm switching to Phoenix.
i also asked them to look at my converter pullout. Now, this is something i didn't even know existed until a few days ago, when i saw a video concerning this on their website. i always thought that if you have the 3 "clunks" and couldn't fit your finger in-between the converter and front of the trans you were good.
They said it was a little too much, but not enough to cause trans damage.
i think if i have one more major problem, i'll likely switch to a newer truck.
My skill/knowledge set isn't quite there yet. My garage and tool situation is also not quite ideal yet. These 3 factors may not make it the best move to try to use a "hot rod" as a daily commuter. Not saying it can't be done---after all, i did it for the past three years somewhat "successfully." But this problem has been going on since Christmas. So, that's about a month with no car. i can survive (apparently...) by using rideshare (convenient and not as expensive as you might think vs. owning a car) or walking/biking or bumming cars. But it's not the way i want to live.
i can still have project cars on the side and still be learning. If the newer car breaks, which is very unlikely, i can just bring it to the dealer----fast and easy. If a project car breaks, who cares? i can still get to work.
i'm looking at colorado crew cab w/ 5.3 LS, so 2009-2012
Or used, but recent tahoe.