I fully understand the concept of "Doing it right", and strongly believe in that concept.
However, the corollary to that is: Deciding on what you want to do with your rig, and building it accordingly.
Seriously, give this some thought.
A Dana 60 will set you back several hundred bucks to start with. But at that point you have to evaluate the condition of the ball joints, the brake rotors (and calipers), and the ring and pinion ratio.
For reference purposes, and to give you a very rough idea of parts prices, (no labor) I replaced both upper and lower ball joints and the brake rotors on a corporate ten-bolt axle. I also changed the ring and pinion gears.
OEM General Motors ball joints (all four of 'em) were about a hundred bucks with tax. New rotors (Raybestos Premium Grade) were also about a hundred bucks plus tax, I bought a used ring and pinion gear set on ebay for about ninety bucks. However, I also bought all new seals, a new pinion nut and a new crush sleeve, so add another 40 bucks for those. I already had all of the special tools to replace the ball joints and seals, as well as the dial indicator and magnetic stand for the ring and pinion.
Now add in the extra cost factor for Dana 60 parts as opposed to corporate 10 bolt parts: $$$.
Without trying to be disrespectful, it sounds like you have the desire, but lack the knowledge and experience to build this yourself.
A lot of this seems intimidating, bit it really isn't all that daunting. There is a great deal of satisfaction / pride when you do it yourself, and as the saying goes: "Rome was built one brick at a time".
A number of years ago I did a complete restoration on an older Ford F-250 4x4. I paid to have a 428 engine built by a "professional". I also paid to have the NP 435 transmission rebuilt by another "professional".
Never again! Both "professionals" did a lousy job and I ended up re-doing their work myself. When you look at the factory service manuals, and you see special tools, all kinds of tight tolerances, it looks really difficult. Your expectation is that the "professionals" adhere to the service manual procedures and tolerances. The reality is, they slap it together, hope it works and charge you up the a** for their "work".
If you do it yourself, you know exactly what was done, how it was done, what parts were used, etc.
You'll get in over your head a few times, You'll make a few mistakes. It'll take longer than you think. But, you will gain knowledge, and experience.