While I am by no means an expert, I can speak to the expertise of the folks answering your questions. I just went through this with a different setup. It took a bit for me to realize what was happening...there is a lot more to timing than set it and forget it. There's always going to be a trade-off, it cant run at it's best all the time, even with variable timing controlled by a computer. You have to either tune for all-out WOT or find a happy medium where it's 'close enough' to meet your needs. I do have a bit easier way to find TDC, maybe not as accurate, but close enough for me. Try a plastic drinking straw in the #1 cylinder. It will come up, pause, then start to drop as you turn the balancer. When it stops the upward motion, you're about TDC. Then figure out if you're on the compression stroke with the finger on the hole trick and you're good.
I used to use a chopstick, but then I lost one in the cylinder. A straw won't hurt anything. Apparently, the chopstick didn't either, but i was a little worried the first time I started it.