BTW,,,, TH-350's are notorious for stripping out the 4 bolt holes in the transmission case as well as cracking the aluminum tail housing where the o-ring goes....
Clean the tailhousing with some brakeclean,,, get up in there with a bright flashlight and inspect the housing for tiny cracks and the 4 bolt holes in the case really good.... look for pulled or stripped threads...
I always replace the four bolts with grade 8 studs and red loctite them in place before I reinstall the adaptor.... then I use grade 8 flat washers and lock washers and nuts..... overkill ? maybe....but with that much weight ( transfer case ) hanging off the end of the trans housing.... its cheap insurance..
PS.....the quad ring (square cut o-ring) you need can be found at most transmission shops.... they always have a bunch of them laying around.... they are the same ones that mount the tailshaft housing on a non-4x4 transmission..... some places will just give them to you if you tell them what you are working on...