Look around for a nice "ma and pa" kind of transmission shop. If you get stuck on a certain step, you may be able to pay them to press a seal, align a pump, etc. Such shops may also have some rebuilt assemblies and other random parts they can sell you if you need them. For a lot of the special tools, it can be hard to know whether you can get by without them until you get to that step. Sometimes you can fabricate a compressor tool or whatever out of common stuff. It just takes a lot longer. Some of the special tools are strictly to save time - which is important for professionals.
Be sure to replace the torque converter - a rebuild is fine.
When I did my first one I figured that the worst case scenario was to give up, throw it all in a box and take the mess to the transmission shop. Pulling it out and putting it back in the vehicle is half of the labor cost anyway.
You'll need to prepare a suitable shop space. I recommend plenty of table/bench/shelf space to lay out all of the parts in order. If you lay them on newspaper, you can write down the names or numbers of the parts. Also, if you have ever considered buying a parts washer, now would be the time. Or buy a case of brakecleen.