If it's not FelPro, don't buy them.
Those blue silicon gaskets are reusable and they will stay put if you put them in correctly.
It may be hard to explain on the internet, but if you 'dish' them so the inner ID is put over the inner rails of each cover first, they will stay right where you put then even if you have to bump and tap the cover into place.
Sometimes a bit of hot glue on the four corners will help in particularly tough installations, but that's all I've ever had to use - ever!