If the detroit in your 14bff doesn't unlock then something is not right. Mine unlocks around every corner & you can feel it lock & unlock every time you get on and off the gas while cruising straight down a road. I have an automatic with a low stall converter so I am not sure what is the problem with your detroits. Matts (az-k5) Detroit acts just like mine does on the street.
If you are going to street drive your K5 then pay the money & get a Detroit. I ran a welded for 2 years with a semi-DD K5. I thought the welded was ok but after I installed a Detroit I would NEVER go back to a welded for a truck that is going to get even moderate street time. For a trail only truck weld it up call it good, but for the street a Detroit is the ticket.
If you run a welded on the street you are going to pay alot of money in tires. You will chew them up WAY faster with a welded then you will with a Detroit. A detroit is going to eat more then an open diff but not anything like a welded.
Harley