I have an isolator, not sure about the other terms, but how my system works is like this. Im using my 2nd batt. strictly as a backup. You can use it as aux batt , which would run some accessories off it and some off the main. I didnt want to do this. I wanted my 2nd batt. to never have a draw on it, so it will always be fully charged and ready to go.
On the kit I have, there is a 3 pos. switch,
Pos 1 - takes the 2nd batt outa of the system and wont be charged by alt.
Pos 2 - puts the 2nd batt in the system but there is no draw on it but gets charged by the alt.
Pos 3 - puts the 2nd batt in the system and combines the 2 batts. for more juice aka winching, etc.
I really like the Hellroaring setup, that is why I choose it. Some ppl have used FORD Starter solinoids to build a nice setup, its cheap, easy and works (if done right)