not to flog a dead pony.... but I'm gonna just throw an observation out... hopefully you can see it for the constructive side that's it's intended to be.....
it must be the intraweb,

but it motivates people, young people to go WAY beyond their capabilities sometimes IMO..... I NEVER would have attempted such a project in my early 20's.. I was still building stuff with bolt on parts, with little, minor customizing here and there...
I just think it takes HELLA balls, to try and do a project like this when you had never burned a single bead beforehand... having to hire someone to do the welding on a project like this, to me, is a recipe for it not getting done.. glad to see you trying to learn that skill..
not that it's a bad thing, crash course can be some of the best learning experiences.. I just think sometimes young guys get in over their head, "eye's bigger than their stomach" scenario as far as builds go... it's happened before in here, with success, and failure.. I certainly had some when younger, and came out a better fabber/mechanic, but it can be trying...
do what you gotta do man.... but honestly, you should probably at least try to set aside a couple hr's a week to start up again.. evaluate what you need to do to get the truck running (not pipedreams of more mods), AND GO DO IT..
1 night a week... 1/2 a day on the weekend.. it's not much, but a little forward progress weekly can mean a TON... look at my tubebed, I was looking at a 500, 600+ hr project, 5, 6g's in funding, but every couple hr's or hundy I put into it put's me that much closer.. and more importantly, motivates me...
if your squeeze don't understand that need, or you would rather hang with her, you need to re-evaluate one, the other, or both IMO..