I ran a 1inch d-shaft spacer with an 8" lift and the stock front shaft was fine. When I lowered it down to 4-5" of lift I took the spacer out and it rubbed the crossmember. I just ground the casting on the cv smooth and it was fine.

That is a possibility, so clearance that first and then if you still have the problem, look into clocking the tcase down.Had to drive the truck for work today and I quick looked under there to check out the crossmember on my way out. It's terribly close. I hadn't really noticed it before, because I was looking more at the stock skid plate. With the kind of noise I'm getting, it would make sense that it would be from the crossmember. It's like a repeating "thwack thwack thwack." Which makes sense with the CV hitting since there's gaps between the ears of the CV. I'm going to try to clearance that sucker on Friday morning and see if that fixes it. I have some mild wheeling Friday and Saturday that both involve VERY steep hill climbs, so I want this taken care of before hand.
Thanks for all the encouragement and ideas!!!

We'll have to see what we find when I flex the truck out on Friday morning.Bah, you don't need to clock it. There are plenty of rigs around your height that make it work. Pull the drive shaft and grind the casting all smooth on the outside of the cv. You'll be able to tell if its been hitting. Mine had a shiny spot on the casting.
The more I think about it, the more i'm inclined to believe that this is related to the crossmember, so I'm glad for what I think will be an easy fix.
Also, this is the 500 mile gear oil change required for proper gear break in. The front is going to take forever to get broken in, so I'm not going to bother changing it for a few months.That's a pretty good price. I wonder about clocking the t-case upwards, if that would fix my problem? It'd be an upgrade and a fix in one fell swoop!We'll have to see what we find when I flex the truck out on Friday morning.
I know this is sort of a noob problem! 
Yeah I would clearance it and change the mounts, tranny and engine.I still think I'll clearance it though. That's a pretty tight margin, even if the trans mounts were new.
Well, I've found the problem(s)! I'm stoked. I had a few extra minutes tonight, so I went up to the Church parking lot and flexed out on a big boulder. I could hear it grind as I slowly inched my way up the rock. I put it in 2wd, parked it, and unlocked the hubs. The driveshaft spins freely by hand. I wasn't at completely full droop on the passenger side, but certainly more droop than I'd effectively have going uphill. So I looked closer and could see the grind marks on the cross member, and the CV is about 1/8" away from it. So, apparently under load my transfer case is bearing down towards the ground just a bit, and that allows the CV to clack against the crossmember.
So I'm quite relieved to know I don't have an expensive new front shaft be the only fix! So Friday morning I'll clearance the crossmember. My next question is, does this indicate a bad transmission mount? I'm thinking yes. This one has 200,000 miles on it, so it would make sense. When replacing those mounts, do I need to also replace the engine mounts at the same time? What material would you go with? I know both engine and trans. mounts need to be made from the same material.
Thanks to all who are helping me through this stuff.I know this is sort of a noob problem!
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Soooo, I put it in 4 hi and went blasting across the dunes until it self clearanced.![]()
I'm leaning towards getting some 1/2" thick steel, cutting it down and drilling a couple holes to make a spacer and then put it in between the crossmember and the trans mount.