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FINALLY, the bugs are worked out of the harness! I got the harness from a "Harnessworx" on FB, the harness is nice and appears to be well built. It's taken some time to work out some glitches, apparently the builders wiring diagram for '91 exterior lighting has some errors which caused me to install / remove / send back because initially I only had headlights then the turn signals were flashing opposite corners together (LF w/ RR, RF w/ LR). Everything seems to be correct now so I can finally proceed with permanently installing it and connecting some accessory wiring.
The builder is a nice guy and considerably cheaper than Painless, etc BUT he's pretty slow on communication and I've seen some negative feedback on another forum. Overall, my experience was really good because he was willing to do all of the custom request I had (most were deleting unwanted circuits) whereas Painless wouldn't even talk about mods, they wanted me to buy their big universal Chevy harness and just tie up wiring for any unused circuits - Hello, this is what I was trying to get away from!

I love haw the new harness is really small and clean, you almost can't see it now that it's installed.
I have no idea how long it's been like this and it ran great, never had any indication of a problem. I guess it's a testament to how well an MSD set up can jump a gap. 
