Ok, so I did a bit of research today. My biggest thing is longevity and value. Lets face it is one wheel lasts 3 times longer than another and is twice the cost, its a better value. You can buy 100 HF wheels that may last as long as 5 dewalts. Longevity is key.
Its hard comparing these things because there is so many different wheels. I always try to but in 25 packs so that's what I did my comparison on. Here was my findings. These are all for 7/8s arbors and standard grinders. All prices are before shipping
Smith and arrow- 5 inch OD-.472 thick-$32.71 (Heard lots of good things about these)
Pearl- 4.5 OD-.45 thick-$92.00
Walter (as greg posted) 4.5 OD-.469 thick- $83.31
PFERD-5 inch-.45 thick-$72.80
Diablo- (note couldn't find these in 25 pack so I made a 25 pack) 4.5 OD-.40 thick-$74.25
Dewalt XP- (note 5 packs, so I did 5x5) 4.5 OD-.45 thick-41.40
metabo slicer- 4.5-.40-$30.00

Found on ebay so who knows...
Sait- 6 inch OD (all I could find in 25 pack) .45 thick-$66.10
Norton-4.5 OD-.40 thick- 40.95
Im really thinking about trying out the smith and arrow brand...