Update!
Ok so after days and weeks of research and calling all the experts I could find, I finally reached a decision.
I am going with the crane roller cam setup, part# 139011.
I am also going with a stall converter set at 2,000 to 2,200RPM stall.
The reason why I went with this,
1. I should get noticeably more power from the roller setup ( do to lift, duration, lobe separation and all that stuff)
2.You fine folks suggested it ( CK5 homies told me to so i shall)
3.The power range on the roller is much larger and is way closer to what i actually need for the type of driving i do
4. It's an insurance policy ( bottom line, with all the bull**** i have been through I need some piece of mind)
5. who knows where oil is heading and how long we can keep using the flat tap cams??
6. My machine shop is literally losing money on the deal just to get me over to a roller so we never have issues again.
The reason I chose the 2,000 to 2,200 stall:
1. Crane cam said that's what I needed
2.You fine folks suggested it ( CK5 homies told me that would rock)
3. The performance transmission shops ( like 5+ I contacted) all said for my build and driving the 2,000 to 2,200 would be ideal and I would absolutely feel it in the seat
4. Warranty exchange.... yes I said it, I am getting my new stall converter for $60 bucks because the transmission parts house was willing to do a warranty exchange and upgrade. Money is a huge factor here, I have used these guys for torque converters 4 previous times and they build good stuff. This new converter is built here in their shop and has a 3 year warranty so i'm happy with it.
5.Peer pressure
Just to put some minds at ease I will say the only internals we are reusing are the pistons, and possibly the piston rods EVERYTHING else is brand new ( not reman or refurbished ). Rings, bearings, crank, cam, lifters rockers so on... I say possibly the rods because they are doing a deep inspection on them if they are fine we will reuse them if there is even a slight question they wont be reused. ( I know someone said something about the heat possibly causing an issue so I brought it up and he agreed and said it was already part of the plan)
This thing should be bulletproof or at least last me 22 miles instead of just 20!

LOL
I have faith that this guy is going to be over the top thorough with this build neither he or I want to see this engine come apart again. hopefully the 4th time is the charm!