I agree with this statement 100%. You have a nice truck. Incredibly nice, as a matter of fact, maybe in the top 10% (from what I can see from the pics) of modded fords in quality and craftsmanship. That being said...
I think the thing everyone may be either overlooking or just not saying-I can see where the officer is coming from. Although you may have the best there is to offer in suspension, and everything may be 110% dead nuts on as far as installation, the COG on that vehicle is just plain out of control. In an emergency maneuver situation, that truck is infinitely more likely to roll or get out of control than 99% of vehicles on the road. It's just too big to be safe at freeway speed. THAT is where the officer is coming from, and I agree. I would be terrified to be on the road in front of, next to, or behind that thing, just because of the potential for things to get ugly.
I don't know how the officer treated your wife, what was exactly said. Maybe he was a jerk, maybe not. But the fact remains, it's his job to keep the public safe, and I can see his point of view.