sounds like a lightening rod or better one is needed. Or 2 or 3
2 5 foot long ground rods were installed when I did the new panel. 10 feet apart. Part of the local code.Might be worth adding another pair of ground rods. In reality, it was probably the charge in the air that did it. But most of the shittier circuits depend heavily on an earth ground that works well. Do you ever end up with a floating neutral?

The one row of lights that I rarely use, are fluorescent. Never swapped them out. They barely came on.
The feeds to the meters are aluminum.aluminum has no place with electricity