Well you put it almost vertically little forward and disconnect the rods and put the brackets straight down that would be neutral.
The shifter should have a detent and should hold on neutral so if you are close enough and linkage is disconnected you'll find it.
At this point you adjust the linkage to hook up to the bracket.
To make it easier you could just disconnect one and adjust to make the brackets lign up when in neutral.
I think your last post show that you were not able to get to low gear because of the adjustment.
Low loc is almost laying down forward.
Youre saying lo loc is more forward than this?
Because I was able to force it forward to damn touch the floor.