Hey guys, it's cool and no hard feelings

. Am having fun too

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Re the subject, I second the opinion voting for lighter weight and higher ratio.
So, a combo of 8-lug in the rear, 14-bolt (9.5) with 4:10 matched with 33 to 35 Tires will work great in the soft deep sand applications, as long as you have a stout engine, no less that 5.7L. I towed many stuck new trucks out of the sand with no single issue or failure.
In our hot climate (temp goes as high as 125F, even higher on the sand- which loosens the sand grains), I'd prefer to rely upon Manual gear, as the auto trans will build excessive heat (the way we drive), no matter how big a trans-cooler you'll use.
Again, this is based on my field experience using the CK-5 for more than 6-years in the extreme sand applications in the "Empty Quarter" (and, if interested, you may read and "google" my old article, which I authored, titled "surfing the sands of sahara in the Arabia, @ Off-Road.com website"). Enjoy it!