Cool, thanks for all the feedback. I guess here is my dilema...do I replace teh adapter now, or wait until it gets worse? My first thought was that I should wait, but now I am thinking that if that crack is getting worse every time I drive that I need to do it NOW. I will leave the tranny in the truck and just yank off the transfer case.
. Make sure that the motor mounts and trans mounts are the same material (poly/poly or rubber/rubber) If they are different the motor will want to twist differently than the trans as rubber is more giving than poly. (this is why I broke the first one) I attribute the second brake to extreme frame flex, ok well extreme frame broke. I should have realized the frame was not right when I kept popping the pivot on the clutch.
It's okay though, I still towed a jeep home on the highway with it like that.

