UPDATE!!
So, the next frontier is going to be getting a better understanding of fuel lines, fittings, methods and manufacturers.....
I've been compiling a list of ideas and as Donald Rumsfeld called them "the unknown, unknowns"..... which are the hardest things to anticipate. I don't even KNOW the extent to which I don't know things, so it's hard sometimes to even ask the correct questions...
Anyway.... I'm partway through the process and I'll write a lot of it down here in a sort of "stream of consciousness" to help organize my thoughts and maybe solicit some feedback.
For the fuel system, I want to run as much hardline as possible. It will help to cool the fuel better than rubber hose, and it will be cleaner-looking once installed. I don't want to use steel because of rust issues, aluminum might work well but I've been told it's still not as good as stainless. Stainless is a hard metal, so unless it's been annealed it won't bend well and will be almost impossible to flare without splitting, etc.
EARLs sells straight lengths of T304 stainless through Summit, etc. 2 ft, 4ft, 5ft, 6ft, 8ft. I'd rather buy straight lengths and not have to deal with trying to straighten it. It's almost impossible to get it to look good without a special straightening tool, and by the time you buy/make a nice tool to do it, you could have just paid the premium price for the straight tube in the first place.
Fittings / Flares:
NPT sucks - Avoid at all costs.
AN is a 37* flare that works well
SAE is a 45* flare that also works well
AN & SAE are NOT interchangeable, so it makes sense to pick one and use it throughout
I have a flaring set that I bought many years ago from Snap-On, but honestly I don't know how well it works for the kinds of flares I will be doing:
I also bought a tubing bender way back then, which looks to be very "Light Duty" and I'm not sure I'd trust it to do a quality job. I need to research and find something more appropriate:
Fittings:
Aeroquip makes nice fittings
Fragola was also reccomended as a quality choice that might be a bit cheaper.
I want to avoid the "carnival look" of traditional red/blue anodized fittings and will focus on black or silver colors only
Fittings come in aluminum (commonly) but are apparently available in stainless as well.
The aluminum ones might be more fragile than the stainless but apparently there is no issue using aluminum fittings with stainless tube (ie. corrosion, electrolysis, etc)
There are supposedly some fittings out there that are quick-disconnect style that allow for removal of the hose without losing fluid. These could be really cool to use for service items like a framerail mounted fuel filter where it might be desirable to remove the canister to replace a filter, and not lose a ton of gas on the floor in the process...
Clamps:
I want to find some nice framerail clamps to hold the tubing. EARLS makes a nice simple double-tube clamp that might be able to attach to the frame with a tapped hole and small stainless bolt.
Hoses:
Looking for black, fabric-covered hose options to keep the look subtle... not interested in stainless braided hose.
Apparently there are different qualities of hose depending on the internal liners used. Some are more impervious to the additives in our crappy pump gas (MTBE, Ethanol, etc) than others, so I need to be careful to choose wisely. I don't want to have to worry about a "replacement schedule" for rubber fuel lines in my truck. I'd rather buy something good and run it for another 50 years!
Accessories:
I may be able to get away with my current flaring kit, but I may want to get something different depending on the fittings and materials I use (unknown unknowns)
Will also need things like Aluminum "soft jaws" for my bench vice for holding fittings, Aluminum wrench set, new tube bender, etc. To get quality bends and fitments of the hose ends.
Not sure how much a crimper costs, but maybe there's a way to buy just the crimping dies and somehow use the hydraulic power of my existing bender and adapt it for use on that?

I built a flarehole adapter for my ProTools bender and that worked awesome.
Anyway, that's the current dilemma. Feel free to chime in with ideas, comments or links to materials that might help me get this all sorted out.
In the meantime, I will keep fitting up cage plates to the bedfloor and keep moving along on smaller projects while I wrap my head around all this fuel-system related stuff.
-G