Here's my 2cents, ditch the timelines, compressing the possible time frame slotted for these projects imposes unnecessary stress which will lead to compromises and likely large ones in your project. You have not at this point had many, trust me it takes away from your family in a big way, and it's not worth it in the long run because you killed the time anyway and might have screwed up a good thing in the process costing you more than 2x the projection.
Keep at your pace and get as far as you can by prioritizing your lists but if you don't make it because of one delay or another so be it..
Btw triple all the items on your list and you'll be closer... then check me on this when you complete..
It's possible that I don't have a great track record at estimating my work.
This build was originally projected to be finished in 2 years. So there's that....
I had a $$$ estimate way back then also.... I won't even go there.

-G


I'm going to try to ignore it... which isn't easy to do.
