I run cross over, high steer, 52s, 7" shackles and 7 degree shims on my D60 - EVERY time I have had DW it's been junk tie rod ends.......

Have you tried fender washers in the caps? Thats what I did and its fine.

Put another washer or 2 under the caps. I have 2 under each cap with new springs and bushings.ive got northwest fab reverse hi-steer arms, they were a pretty penny so id rather not switch arms.
if the draglink isnt completely parallel, could that cause the bad death wobble? ive got 2 holes on the pass arm, and its currently not parallel. i'll try the other hole and see what happens
i hate to say this but i dont like bias swampers for the way thay make the dana 60 kingpins go crazy .
everytime i have had it it was with bias swampers.put on a set of barrowed radials about the same size and gone.