That looks fairly normal compared to mine.
First things first......make sure your steering shaft is OK and tight. Totally a safety thing so be positive you have plenty of thread, it's tight at both ends and not moving around at those connections at all. Watching "Trucks" they used threadlock on those bolts.
So long as those are tight and secure, you are safe. If there is a little slop when you wiggle the steering shaft, it may be just b/c the plastic inserts got burned out (assuming here).
Try having someone sit inside the truck and turn the wheel left and right (keep engine off). See if there is some slop or the XJ shaft joint is moving around. Look at the steering box frame as well and be sure you don't have any cracks in the frame.
Truck's looking good!
Oh, and re-torque your u-bolts. That might be part of the reason the leafs are fanning out a bit. You need to re-tighten those 3-4 times after a new lift.