Someone correct me if I'm wrong but that dying you're getting is a tune problem. When you delete the auto trans you default it to a manual so that the rpms drop quicker for shifting. I believe that you can adjust the parameters accordingly.

I replaced both my pan gasket and the rear main. I noticed that right in the corners the pan gasket and the rear main gasket are supposed to seal to each other. It seemed kinda fishy to me so I dabbed a little RTV in the corners. Maybe that is where your problem lies.
I checked, I have 12v on one wire, nothing on one wire, and 4.90v on the last 2.Yea, wtf? I would probably first test for power and ground at the connector. If you have both and they are in the right spot, maybe new o2s.
An actual different o2 that reads differently, or simply the same 02 with the 6L specific triangular plug on it?If I remember correctly a 6l does require a different 02
Nah, I don't see a number on either one of them. But I think they are eitherIt reads differently, can you get a part number off one of them?