As my father used to say when I crawled in muddy up to the eyeballs, having pulled up a half dozen trees with my winch because I was too stupid to look for solid pull points before driving into a hole.
Then, after partially digging out, making a deadman pull, getting through the bog, discovering that the road did not go though, getting stuck again going back, arriving home about 2 in the morning, he would look at me and grin.
And say: "But look at all the fun you had"
I swear, if it had been anyone but him, I would have shot him dead on the spot.
Strange part is, I was having fun. I just could not see it. Today, I wish I could do it again.
This transmission problem is going to turn out the same way.
You pulled out the tranny and rebuilt it.
Finally got it installed, and it ate its self.
Now, you are going to have to pull it again and start over.
Thats the bad news.
What little good news is, that all the bolts will come out easier, almost all the dirt and grease is gone so it will be a clean removal, you know just what to do this time to get it out, and you will find exactly what went wrong.
That has got to be bugging you right now.
I know its bugging me.......
But, you will find out, you will fix it, and you will get it back in.
And, you know what? Something else might go wrong!!
But, look at all the fun you will have.........!
And when you finally get it going, and its shifting great, you can do like I have done a few times in my life when something fought me for a long time, and it took 5 or 6 tries to get all the bugs out.
You can walk up next to it, make sure no one is around, get real close, grin at it, and say: " I beat you, you bastard!"
Maybe its just a chunk of metal, and does not know you said it, but you'll know, and that is what counts.