Yeah the deck clearance you won't know for sure without measuring but a lot of people use .007 since most engines came with .004-.010 from the factory (from what I've seen online anyways) and most stock head gaskets are .051 but you can get after market ones in just about any thickness you want... I was trying to figure out all of this stuff for a used LS2 shortblock I picked up a few months ago until I found out a spun rod bearing trashed the crank so now I'm stuck trying to decide between going with a stock replacement crank, budget pistols, and stock recon'd rods for around a grand or saving up some more cash for a stroker setup (~$2000).
That BTR cam should suit your needs perfectly and keep your valve train happy for a long time. Be sure took in to getting a valve job and the deck cleaned up on your heads while you have everything apart. The flat top pistols should get you up to around 10:1 compression but if you want to go any higher than that you can have the heads milled while they're being worked on.