Good news, the 241 is in, I'm off to my cabin, assuming I can still turn the steering wheel after bench pressing that thing in by myself (I'm 60). Even better news, my vibration is gone! There may have been a couple of reasons:
I think I mentioned that when I bought my non-running K5, the transfer case took at least a quart, maybe two can't remember to top up. Maybe that toasted a bearing, though it was always quiet whine wise and worked perfectly. Up and down play of the driveshaft yoke was only slight, no worse than the 241.
Secondly, whoever put this together before apparently didn't have all the right bolts, the top two bolts holding the transfer case to the trans were 3/8" US, and just about finger tight. The bottoms were the proper metric and tight. Also there was no torque rod.
The 241 and strut rod went right in except the cross member mount is different, I had to make a spacer out of 2x4 box steel to use my old cross member and mount. Perhaps the cross member out of the donor Suburban would work? Other than that no difference.
So it looks like I'm good to go. Thanks all for the help!