I understand I'm not dealing with GM stuff, but maybe they programmed them with similar functionality?
GM had a fuel decel cutoff setting that was based on throttle position (TPS), MPH, and engine RPM.
If you have those parameters available for fuel cutoff, maybe they can be adjusted to keep it from having that issue? Although a second is a long time in the scheme of EFI, that might be too much "lag" to tune around.
I can't view the vids now, but why don't the injectors just shut off? There should be no "pumping up" required, the regulator should just bypass all pumped fuel until the injectors start flowing again.
IME decel fuel cutoff is worth a 10% bump in economy if you drive right.