The calculators I found show that an aluminum driveshaft wouldn't change the RPM by much, maybe a couple hundred.
Spicer has a calculator to give you the critical speed of any type of driveshaft. I'm assuming this is for mild steel, but honestly the composition doesn't matter that much until you get to carbon fiber.
Calculate the optimal operating revolutions per minute of your driveshaft based on the style of the driveshaft and specific measurements with the Spicer Critical Speed RPM Calculator.
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At this point I'm looking to regear from 4.10:1 to 3.73:1. If you look at the critical speed of my current driveshaft:
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With 4:10 gears and 275/55R17 tires at 75mph:
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That's right where it starts vibrating. Switching to 3.73 gears pushes that up.
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I generally cruise between 70 and 80 so that would fix my issue. My current driveshaft could also be lengthened slightly to give me better spline engagement which may help as well since the minimum engagement happens at ride height. I calculated yesterday that I could make it 1" longer.
When I talk to the driveshaft shop tomorrow about options I will ask about an aluminum shaft that is 1" longer. Between that and regearing I think I'll be good for now as long as it can handle the torque.